Update May 31, 2025

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I want to connect with ya’ll (preparing for Texas visit) before I travel to the East coast.

WHAT DOES WORSHIP EVEN MEAN?

Confession: It has been a bit of a trigger for me: showing up in a church service, singing along with the songs, well, sometimes I just sing in tongues. I have had the thought: when does this become man-worship? This is likely due to being in a community for so many years that encouraged a form of man-worship and it led nowhere good. Jesus was a man and so I wasn’t feeling comfortable worshipping him. Jesus was a teacher and an example, showing and teaching us how to love and have true compassion. He also emphasized oneness with the Father. So, what is the point of worship? It has seemed dangerous to me.

Recently I believe I came to a new understanding. On a hike with a couple of friends, one of them talked about how he loved to listen to devotional music, or kirtan, a form of music, singing, chanting that can include dance and movement.  So, Christianity is not the only religion that includes devotional practices.

I am a bit addicted to “Glorious Louange” on YouTube. It is Christian worship/ praise all in French. I like to turn it on and do my qigong practice. Sometimes the qigong moves get a little more swaying and expressive to match the tunes. The words (which I only 70% understand) don’t trigger me as much. The people singing all seem so sincere, pure, and authentic.

As I was worshipping along in French-tongues, I realized that worship and Devotion is like making love. I am connecting with the divine and there is an interpenetration of sorts. I feel there is nothing better to allow into my heart than the unconditional outpouring love of the divine. My body absorbs it like a sponge.

Worshipping Jesus allows for a connection that can include transmission (Impartation) from him to me and from me to him. This can allow lasting change and growth in me.

MORE ON GRIEF:

Michael and I grew together for many years and we functioned as a unit. After his mortal death, part of my very being gone. When I go through periods of grief it is painful, almost like surgery. I am having to learn and allow myself to be rewired. Finding wholeness in my own being.

Michael is no longer on my shoulder encouraging me, he has backed away a bit. As if to say, “You can do this. On your own.”

A week ago or so I wrote this to share in a support group:

MY GRIEF IS LIKE:

My grief is like curtains, that naturally fold, hanging over windows. They can be pushed to the side to allow the sun to shine through. But always, no matter how much sun there is, there are those folds of darkness, lurking, waiting for the moment when: a breeze blows, someone mentions a memory, the moon is in Saturn, who knows what? But then I feel awful. It may lurk for a few hours kind of hinting it wants to come to the surface.  Then when I finally take time with it, I cry, I pray, and ask for mercy and compassion, to me and through me to others. Then the pain is gone and life presents itself to me in the now and with its many possibilities.

I am also seeing how the whole population is living with grief. It could be from a lost loved one or many lost loved ones, but also it could be from lives falling apart, losing jobs, dreams, friends, a community, or what we consider to be a safe world to live in. The deepest grief is mourning the apparent separation from God. Thich Naht Han says that the separation is an illusion.

Maybe a place to start is to at least share the grief. We are never alone.

14 responses to “Update May 31, 2025”

  1. Bryan Smith

    We Love and miss you Aunt Sarah! Enjoy your trip to Texas

    1. Sarah

      Thanks for your love!!!

  2. Tom Wolverton

    This is beautiful, Sarah. I love you.

    1. Sarah

      Hugs Hugs Hugs

  3. Jerry and Donnette

    Dear Sarah,
    Thank you again for sharing your journey. Your journey is taking you on a road with twists and turns, and you are finding your way. We are so thankful in our journey that the Lord lives forever and there’s never a separation from His love and His intercession for us. We love that separation is an illusion – not truth! Y’all have an awesome time in Texas ❤️❤️

    1. Sarah

      Amen!

  4. Janet M Daniel

    Thank you for sharing with us, Sarah.
    I wanted to share with you that our lady’s group here at Bethel Lutheran is reading and studying the Book of Ruth on Friday mornings. As we sat around the table, I realized that nearly all of them have gone through the loss of their husbands. (They’re older women–like me…) But I thought of Naomi and her two daughters-in-law, In one day everything changed for them. And as we ladies sat together yesterday sharing, I realized everything also changed for them in one day.

    The Book of Ruth came alive to me in a new way. May you continue to find peace and comfort as the Lord reveals Himself to you through these days of transition.
    Hugs, Janet

    1. Sarah

      Thank you Janet.. My love to Bill!!

  5. Linda Fleischer

    So happy to read this Sarah. Our grief changes us but for the better I beleive.
    I love that you are so honest in sharing your journey…thank you for that.
    Always in my thoughts and prayers! Safe travels!💚

    1. Sarah

      Thank you my friend!

  6. Katie Dole

    Looking forward to seeing you on your travels, Sarah. Love your direct expressions of spirituality. I empathize with your grief journey…glad you are getting support for that.

  7. Gayle

    Sarah,
    What everyone else has said! Yes, thank you for continuing to share your journey! Just know that you come into my thoughts often, and you’re always in my heart.

    Thank you for making us aware of Glorious Louange on Youtube. I listened to 3 of them this morning!

    YOU SAID: “As I was worshiping along in French-tongues, I realized that worship and Devotion is like making love. I am connecting with the divine and there is an interpenetration of sorts. I feel there is nothing better to allow into my heart than the unconditional outpouring love of the divine. My body absorbs it like a sponge.”

    I get it! You know more of the French language than I do, but it’s beautiful to listen to, so thank you!

    Hugs and kisses,
    Gayle

  8. Kyla

    Love what you wrote, Sarah, and love You! i am So Glad you are in a grief(?) support group. I know two people who are certain that such support made a huge difference in their journey following the passing of their beloved spouse.
    Enjoy your travels east to see family…& perhaps a retreat?
    💙🙌🏻💙

  9. Sarah

    Yep- part of my trip is a stay at Kripalu yoga retreat. 🙂

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